dominance
i have to admit that this shit has some point in it: [via]
"if there is one thing that turns women off more than anything else, it's a man with a lack of dominance. and an attractive woman can smell a lack of dominance like a shark smells blood.
no one is attracted to someone who conveys a sense of being powerless. when it comes to being a man, however, power is not only important, it's everything. ... a woman is never attracted to a man who seems to be 'equal' with her. in some major way, he has to be more than her. ... to feel feminine, she must be with a man who is masculine. when a woman is with a guy who is not dominant, she feels like he is just another girl.
tho i have to admit that i'm not sure if i agree with it all the way. i do believe in equality above all, but, BUT for example physically, i do expect the male to be stronger and bigger. physically the most important things would be: taller, stronger, more muscly, bigger hands, bigger feet and more body hair. other shit on the list would include: more balls, more brave, preferably more brains, bigger income, more sensible, the usual shit.
most of that is just because men seem to have major issues with this shit if it's the other way around. if i make more money than my bf, they seem to feel inadequate. if i have more balls, they feel pussywhipped. and more sensible? well, if i'd be the more sensible one, the male would have to be pretty fucken ditzy and ditzy men really don't do it for me.
"...one very high dominance woman searched for years for such a male and when she found him she was finally happy. but he wasn't quite dominant enough, and so she used to provoke quarrels that would end with him slapping her about, hurling her on a bed, and raping her. these sexual experiences she found most satisfactory of all."
mmm... agro-quarrel sex. (as mentioned by tira - in finnish)
"if there is one thing that turns women off more than anything else, it's a man with a lack of dominance. and an attractive woman can smell a lack of dominance like a shark smells blood.
no one is attracted to someone who conveys a sense of being powerless. when it comes to being a man, however, power is not only important, it's everything. ... a woman is never attracted to a man who seems to be 'equal' with her. in some major way, he has to be more than her. ... to feel feminine, she must be with a man who is masculine. when a woman is with a guy who is not dominant, she feels like he is just another girl.
tho i have to admit that i'm not sure if i agree with it all the way. i do believe in equality above all, but, BUT for example physically, i do expect the male to be stronger and bigger. physically the most important things would be: taller, stronger, more muscly, bigger hands, bigger feet and more body hair. other shit on the list would include: more balls, more brave, preferably more brains, bigger income, more sensible, the usual shit.
most of that is just because men seem to have major issues with this shit if it's the other way around. if i make more money than my bf, they seem to feel inadequate. if i have more balls, they feel pussywhipped. and more sensible? well, if i'd be the more sensible one, the male would have to be pretty fucken ditzy and ditzy men really don't do it for me.
"...one very high dominance woman searched for years for such a male and when she found him she was finally happy. but he wasn't quite dominant enough, and so she used to provoke quarrels that would end with him slapping her about, hurling her on a bed, and raping her. these sexual experiences she found most satisfactory of all."
mmm... agro-quarrel sex. (as mentioned by tira - in finnish)
2 comments:
Gee, us men just cannot win. If we act all Macho and tough we are called Chauvinistic pigs by the majority of women. If we try (or fake) sensitivity we called 'pussy whipped' by the minority of stroppy women like yourself.
I have a mind just to slap you around a bit for the stress you are causing us. But you would probably like that wouldn't you....?
Kiwi
sweetheart, you have to make up your mind first. you can't have it all.
first, you have to choose a target audience. only after that you can plan and execute a successful marketing campaign ;)
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